In the movie Darlings it is shown that a Muslim girl marries a person whom she loves very much. In the scene after three years of marriage, the boy turned from lover to husband has completely changed. He treats the girl he works for in the government as if she were a servant.
Although the girl is a housewife, she has no respect in the eyes of her husband. Seeing it, comes the poor feeling. According to her husband, he has done the woman a favor by not wearing a burqa and giving her the freedom to move to any part of her.
The girl’s name is Badrunnisa, which people affectionately call as Badru. At the same time, Badru’s mother’s name is Shamsunnisa Ansari, whom people call Shamsu. I saw the movie last night, the story is a bit slow but the movie is not bad. It can only be viewed once. I’m not reviewing here, Ichok has already reviewed the movie.
It is said of Darlings that the film promotes male violence. That is why he has also opposed on Twitter. People say that suppose the husband is doing bad to his wife, then the wife should do the same to him? Tell the protesters, hasn’t the wife been shown a victim in any movie before? Has the husband not committed violence against his wife in a movie?
When the house is broken, the people of the society blame the woman, which woman is unable to manage her home.
Those who curse their wives after seeing the darlings know that only a few men have been blamed in the movie… I mean, not all men in the world are like Hamza. By the way, the meaning of the opponents is clear: if the husband commits a crime against the wife, then it is her love and her right, but if the wife does it, then she is a witch. Probably because people have a habit of hearing that so-and-so hits his wife.
In this film, Alia Bhatt has breathed her life as Badru. Seeing them, it seems that yes, her husband Hamza de ella commits a crime with her. She silently tolerates her beatings, she tolerates them. She cries, she gets angry too but like every wife she finally agrees. However, what Badru has done to Hamza in the film, not every woman can do to her husband. Oh, some women, even after beating their husbands, are not able to leave them, far from killing them.
After all, what are the reasons that compel women to endure pain?
husband loves so much
In the film, Badru’s mother says that since when do I tell you to come home. She has spoiled the map of your face, in which Badru says that you will not understand mother because she loves me. We don’t have a relationship like you and Abba. That’s the word where the girls melt. They think that if the husband has scolded me, it will definitely be my fault. He hadn’t heard it, otherwise he would kill me. And then, to fix her husband’s mood, she cooks him good food. Surprise plans for him. She woos him by decorating herself.
tricks to persuade the husband
The husband becomes a little boy even after making a million mistakes. I have to admit that his trick of persuasion is amazing. He makes a mistake at night and apologizes in the morning. He behaves as if the root of all problems is alcohol. That he wants to leave but he can’t leave. Otherwise, it’s all his wife’s fault. He lovingly explains to his wife that there was another reason behind his misbehavior, not him. For example, work pressure in the office, an argument with the boss or a fight with the mother. He says his anger was taken out on you by mistake. He says that I’m doing all this just for you. who is mine apart from you? tell me what you want you are my life…
Where will I go after separating from my husband?
The girls are made to understand on the day of the marriage that now the husband’s house is their own house. She can leave her in-laws’ house only when her mother wakes up. The girls are told that if the marriage breaks up, the woman is defamed. Shefali Shah, who became Alia’s on-screen mother in Darlings, supports her daughter, but in real life, mothers advise daughters to join the house and not leave it.
post divorce flirting
When the policeman at the police station asks Shamsunnisa, Badru’s mother, why does she put up with her husband’s beatings? Why doesn’t she let him? She then she says she hey, there are big fights in this. The film has not been openly talked about, but there are many problems in Muslim women’s divorce, in which the fear of Halala remains in the mind of every woman. Anyway, people will accept the widowed daughter, but there is no place for the divorcee in the mother’s home.
What Mian-Biwi does not have fights?
The wife’s torture is presented in such a way that there are fights in every Mian-Biwi. Oh, there’s a difference between a petty fight and a wife beating. In Darlings, Alia lives in fear of her husband. Hamza doesn’t want me to do any work with her mind. When she goes to meet the dealer, he beats her up a lot. Still, Alia feels that it is normal for husband and wife to have all this, in fact, in society, the woman is presented in such a way that if the husband puts a pebble in the food, then the woman shakes his hand.
last chance to improve
Husband makes mistakes every time and says every time I won’t do this anymore. The wife accepts it like everyone else of hers. She can’t even imagine living without him, because without him she doesn’t exist. She loves him and doesn’t want to lose. She thinks that the husband will get better now. Then, with new hope, she bites into her wounds and begins anew. Sometimes some wives withdraw the case after filing a complaint at the police station, they believe that the husband has improved. If the case is not dropped, then your house will be broken. Badru has also done the same in the film.
baby will do fine
The parents feel that if the son marries, he will improve. The woman feels that her husband will improve if she has a child, but stinging is a scorpion habit that does not go away. No husband can leave her love even after having a child. If this had been the case, neither parent would have divorced.
The woman is to blame for breaking the house
When the house is broken, the people of the society blame the woman, that as a woman she is, she could not manage her house. She couldn’t stand her husband. Although the wife has left her husband, but to the world she is called a woman left by her husband. No one is willing to make her the daughter-in-law of her house again soon. She is called the woman who breaks the house. In this way, her husband is called innocent and the wife is called Papin.
In reality, a woman does not decide to leave her husband all at once, she explains to herself for months. She waits for him to get better. Ignoring many things, she tries to water her relationship every day. She takes courage after every problem that everything will be alright… the day she finally learns to live without him. And the day she learns to take care of herself, she walks away from her husband forever. So if you want to know more, you can watch the movie ‘Darlings’ on Netflix.